Transformative Powers of Your Internal Guidance with Guest Victoria Mann

 

In this episode of "The Crazy Ex-Wives Club," host Erica Bennett and guest Victoria Mann delve deep into intuitive healing and following your soul's plan. They discuss the importance of releasing control, trusting in the universe, and focusing on self-worth. Victoria shares practical tips on calling upon spiritual guides and interpreting signs while both women open up about their personal journeys of overcoming fear and finding fulfillment.

Stay til the end as Victoria leads a powerful meditation exercise to help listeners find happiness and embrace personal growth. Tune in to learn more about soul plans, your inner guidance, and how to return to your happiness.

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Transformative Powers of Your Internal Guidance with Guest Victoria Mann: Full Transcripts

Erica Bennett [00:00:00]:

Hello, guys. Welcome back to another episode of the Crazy Ex-Wives Club. This week, I have Victoria Mann with me. She was one of the spirit guides who helped me through some of my first phases of really figuring out who I am, so I'm excited to have her. Here we are talking all things deep into that intuitive, knowing those soul plans, and understanding that, hey, it all happened for a reason. So let's get started.

Erica Bennett [00:00:29]:

Welcome to The Crazy Ex Wife's Club, a podcast dedicated to helping women navigate the emotional journey that is divorce. I'm your host Erica, and if you're trying to figure out life after the Big D, welcome to the club. Whether you're contemplating divorce or dealing with the aftermath or any of the many phases in between, the club has got you covered. Each week, you'll hear stories from women who have been in your shoes. This isn't about spilling tea on divorce details. This is about giving you the tools to take control of your own healing journey. Listen in weekly for advice, tips, and tools to help you move through each stage of the process.

Erica Bennett [00:01:09]:

Hello. Welcome, you guys. Welcome to this week's episode. I have my friend and guest Victoria here with me. Welcome, Victoria. Thank you for joining us.

Victoria Mann [00:01:18]:

You are so welcome. How are you?

Erica Bennett [00:01:21]:

I'm doing well. I am just enjoying, you know we've transitioned into fall. So enjoyed the summer. Enjoying the podcast. Just enjoying really finding that life purpose, right? When everything lines up and you understand the why, it feels so much better. Everything becomes a lot of fun.

Victoria Mann [00:01:40]:

When you know how to do that. Right? When we know how to do that. And I'm so glad you brought up no matter when you guys are listening to this, right? Just always tune into what you need. But right now, we are going through seasonal transition, energetic upgrades all at once, right? Which is I want you to look at it as, like, a huge opportunity, right? Like, if maybe you're like, "next level happy I am not vibing this," right? I want you to get so effing excited, so excited about the unknown and so excited about all of the infinite opportunities that are available for you based on what you're going through. And if you're having a hard time believing that's going to happen for you, I just want you to know, off the bat, without even really introducing myself, I used to think none of what we're talking about here today was possible. Right? I used to think it was complete bullshit. Didn't think it was possible.

Victoria Mann [00:02:38]:

And I really dedicated my path to understanding the science behind it. For people like you and I, who have had challenging soul plans and maybe have looked at other people your whole life as like, well, how the heck do they get to have that? I see them living their happily ever after, but I want that too. And I'm here to remind you, you get to have your happily ever after no matter what. No matter what.

Erica Bennett [00:03:02]:

So, yeah, one of the things that I am always blown away by is Victoria's skill and talent and really channeling messages from the other side. In fact, that was actually how I first found you. I don't know how I found you on social, but I started following you and you would kind of go live and do card pulls. So I'm sure she's going to pull some card for us today, but you would do these card polls and be like, hey, this is what I'm hearing, this is what I'm picking up, right? And that's how I first got hooked. And I'll confess that first hook was I wanted a crystal ball, I wanted somebody to tell me it was going to be okay. And so I really started to love the messages that were coming through. But as we continued to work together and kind of got into Akashic records and that life changing Maui healing session, I think went on for 2 hours and I came out and I could see different colors and the whole world had changed and I was like, damn, I need to go lay down for a bit. Like I need to go do some work.

Erica Bennett [00:04:01]:

And that's why I wanted her here because it truly is her gift to be able to kind of bridge those two, to bring you those messages and to understand that you got this girl, you got this, you are going to get through it.

Victoria Mann [00:04:14]:

You're going to make me cry. Just like thinking about that session with you, it was so freaking powerful. And then to watch you in present day you're the future version of yourself and then that Maui session, which was now in the past, right? What we were working on is remembering that all that exists is this present moment and we actually create the future in the now. And so everything right? Like if you're looking at Erica and you're, whoa, like I want this. Like I want what you have. This gets to frickin'happen for. Like if you want to see trees as electric, this gets to happen for you without shrooms. This gets to happen.

Erica Bennett [00:04:56]:

You guys, you can reach that state without the drugs. Like what I talk about a lot.

Victoria Mann [00:05:01]:

Is like about whatever healing method you need to explore.

Erica Bennett [00:05:05]:

Whatever healing method you want to explore. But if I just use smoking pot as an example, right, you can reach that same blissed out high, amazing feeling with Meditating. Does it take a little more work? Yes, because you're actually training your body and your mind to reach that state versus using a substance to allow that state. And when you train your mind to do it, you can tap into it all the time. I would join Victoria's guided meditation calls and I could find that future version of me. I could find the integrated. I knew what it felt like. I could feel it.

Erica Bennett [00:05:41]:

And then that way when I was present, I could feel my way back to that.

Victoria Mann [00:05:45]:

100% And that's what I really love helping you do, is find your own confidence, channeling your higher self and feeling that connection to source energy within you. And again, if this is very new information and out there for you and you're not sure how you feel about it, good. I want you to walk into this as a huge experiment. That's what happened with me, kind of what happened with Erica and I remember I pulled cards for the group I don't want to forget about, but I'm just going to let spirit kind of move me where it wants to go. And right now they just want me to introduce myself a little bit. So I'm Victoria. I'm Victoria Man. I didn't introduce myself yet, but so hello.

Victoria Mann [00:06:25]:

I get excited. Spirit definitely channels through me and I let spirit move me and speak through me for the highest and greatest good of all. But it wasn't always like that. So we were just talking about substances, right? How you don't need to lean on substances. And this is actually a really good intro because whenever you're tuning into this, say you're not in seasonal transition, right. It is always a good time to take a look at whatever lifestyle choices you're making without judgment, just getting fucking radically honest with yourself about, hey, this is draining me. Actually, I think maybe this feels good and this is helping me cope. But what would my life look like if I were to remove this one toxic thing? And it might not be like it was for me, the alcohol, it might be starting with your toxic thoughts, right.

Victoria Mann [00:07:16]:

Wherever you want to start at, just take baby steps because that's how you're going to make the full leap. And as we start to lessen the things that are keeping the toxicity high in our body, which Ayurveda teaches us is all of the foods and emotions right, that we have unprocessed. So the more toxicity that we have in the body, the more soul assignments from our life experiences that we chose in this lifetime. They clog up our chakras, right? And then they lower the frequency of our aura, which is always telling the universe what you are allowing more of into your life, right? So just to give like a quick sum up, right, when you're born, think of yourself as a baby with these beautiful clean mirror energy circles going throughout your body, right? And then I used to not know what the word trauma was, right? So you might be like me where you don't even know you experienced trauma and it could just be the person that was mean to you when you were little or maybe you were your own bully, right? Some of my biggest stories that I've had to overcome started in dance school back when I was a little girl. So it's just starting to kind of look at where did this negative thought and storyline and limiting belief imprint and why am I still letting this thought that maybe you didn't even have that you acquired from your family, right? That's when we get into the limiting money mindset and all of that stuff, and how can you start to create new possibilities for your life, right? So for me, it all started with, and this is my path. We all have unique paths, right? So for you, it might not be the alcohol, but for me, I was at the point where I wanted to quit life, right? Like, I was just kind of like, life keeps punching me. This is bullshit. Why am I here? If there is a God, it's clearly forgotten about me.

Victoria Mann [00:09:03]:

But here's the miracle story of my path, is I was willing to try one more time, right? Before I gave up. I was like, well, what if I try one more time? And a book by Deepak Chopra had made its way into my life, right? The book The Secret. And thanks to Oprah writing Super Soul Sunday. And I started to think, well, what if this gets to be true? Right? And what if everything that I've experienced has been to help me? And there's a line by Deepak Chopra that I want to give to you that really helped me on my path, which was, everything that you've experienced to this point is to help you on your path. And then you can get so excited about the uncertainty of the unknown, that you feel so safe and secure in yourself. But what I love working with people on is finding their way to navigate finding that, and accessing your intuition within yourself. So I had a miracle experience. My obsession to drink was removed New Year's Day of 2013, going into 2014, and I knew I received a miracle.

Victoria Mann [00:10:13]:

I had tried not to drink wine for a year consciously, just knowing that that was kind of the thing that was limiting me. I also begged and pleaded if there was a God, right? I didn't want to be on antidepressants for the rest of my life, which I'm all about. Again, medications or whatever you need in your path, trust your journey. Or if you're not into that, trust your journey. Your path is your path. And when you follow your heart and what feels good for you, above all, logic. I have chills. That is how you can access your best life path easily, quickly, stay flowing with the path of least resistance, and come back to your happy whenever you need.

Victoria Mann [00:10:51]:

I thought that I was searching for love my whole life, and I hated when people would say, like, just love yourself. You are love. You are one with infinite love. But the way that you access that is loving yourself and all of your flaws just as you are today. And when you can move into that kind of radical acceptance, it becomes so much easier to stay connected to your higher self, to your spirit guide. So I see your best life path, right? So my obsession to drink was removed by the grace of God, knew I received a miracle, and I started to receive downloads of making my own soul plan. Loved ones that had crossed over started to communicate with me. And as much as I knew that the energy experiences were real, as I started studying energy healing, right.

Victoria Mann [00:11:36]:

I worked in fundraising for a healthcare system, and Cohen Children's Medical Center and Children's Miracle Network is still very important to my heart, but I knew that what I was learning could help them possibly way more. Right. And I'm all about the medical part, too, right. You have to find your own rhythm with it. But I knew I needed to explore the experiences that I was having, because back in 2015, 2016, at this point, I wasn't really able to have these conversations with the doctors at the Children's Hospital. Now, thank goodness, they're much more open to Reiki and the Reiki departments and the healing centers that they have. And actually, all of the Children's Hospital is designed to help create a sensory experience, because if you don't know you're sick, you can return more easily to your natural state of perfect health. Right.

Victoria Mann [00:12:24]:

I'm not sure they know. That's why they designed it that way. But I do. When we were working on the development back then okay, anyway, there's a reason I just shared this, but I see your current life path. So when Erica found me, what I was doing for her is, I see your current life path, right? So if you think of your aura, if you think of frequency, and you think of your quantum field, everything is energy. So if you think of it as, like a pulse, right? So we have an eclipse coming up, and what happens during these huge energetic times? We just had a supermoon is it's kind of like then I've been studying this for a decade. It's kind of like the universe takes a scanner and kind of scans or takes your energetic pulse and is like, okay, where are you at? Based on all of these hard things that were supposed to grow you that your soul chose. And then wherever you're at, wherever you're believing, whatever purification you're up to at that point, whatever your body believes that it deserves, not just the mindset.

Victoria Mann [00:13:19]:

So it's bringing the mindset, your new mindset, clearing the trauma in the body so that your mind, body, and soul are in complete union. Right? That's what yoga does. And everything was derived from the vedas, which is why I'm obsessed with Ayurveda. But there's so many better fast paths than yoga, right? So you can cut through the fear by asking yourself, "well, what would this look and feel like when it works out even better than expected?" And that's one way to collapse time and to start to move out of whatever you're currently experiencing and into what I call your higher timeline. Because there's a higher timeline that your soul chose for you, right? That based on your free will choices on Earth and how you learn from these things and the free will action choices that you take through faith rather than fear. And fulfilling your dharma, which is you have a unique purpose, a reason why your soul chose this body chose to come to Earth during this specific time to help raise the frequency, right? When you do these things, when you fulfill your dharma, it's impossible for the universe to not leap back with you, right? It's impossible for that not to happen. So, yeah, I went from completely not believing to channeling soul plans.

Victoria Mann [00:14:38]:

But what I love doing now, because it's like, I could channel your soul plan, and I love giving you the numerology to back it up so you can see, like, whoa, this is my destiny numerology. My name has vibrations. Like, whoa. Not only did you channel it for my Akashic Records, and by the way, the Akashic Records is everything that ever was, is, or will be. And it's kind of when I say soul plan, it's the roadmap that your soul chose for you. And it's kind of similar to it matches perfectly with your star chart, right, with your astrological chart. I find soul plans much more easier. Instead of needing to know what the planets are doing, of just knowing, oh, this is being able to identify.

Victoria Mann [00:15:18]:

This is the lesson that's showing up for me. This is what I'm meant to grow through. This is my next action step. Like, let's fucking go. Because I deserve to live a life beyond my wildest dreams and then clearing whatever the limiting thoughts are popping up that's making you think, well, this doesn't get to happen for somebody like me, or I'm too old, or it's going to take too long, or I don't have the resources, or I don't have the money, or I don't have the time. And when you don't let those limiting narratives hold you back and you say, I'm open to miracles, I'm willing to be willing, right? So that's the first step. If I can receive a miracle, anybody in this fucking world can receive a miracle. And all I did and I didn't know I was doing it, so there's no way to get it wrong.

Victoria Mann [00:15:58]:

I was willing to be willing to see my situation differently, and I was willing to be willing to try one more time. So if you are on your brink of giving up, do not I want you to promise me right now, do not give up before your miracle, because you will receive it. Not only will you receive it, but you will be gifted a life beyond your wildest dreams. I have chills. I could cry for you. I feel it for you. And if you're having trouble believing it, believe that I know it for you.

Erica Bennett [00:16:28]:

Yeah, I know you've got cards for us too. But I think that that piece about being willing to see it differently. You guys, we get stuck. I've been guilty of it too. You close down how I want to see things or I try and control the path that I think it needs to be, or I think I know the best solution. And when you're willing to turn it over, when you're willing to see something different, when you're willing to say, "hey, maybe there is something that is even better coming for me that I'm not even aware of yet", then those miracles can start to show up. You can find the right people. You get inspired to do something different. You make a leap.

Erica Bennett [00:17:06]:

Maybe you thought you were never going to. Yeah. The things start to change. When you let go of your death grip that you have to be controlling everything. And we want to control it because it's a sense of security and safety. And when you can be like, "hey, I'm safe, I can release this a little bit and what other opportunities, possibilities, inspiration is out there." Really amazing things can show up.

Victoria Mann [00:17:32]:

100%. And Erica is such a testament to that. And just being willing to say, you know what, I have this calling in my heart and I know that I'm meant to share my story and help other people. Right. And maybe you could share for somebody that's listening. Right. Was that scary for you? Scary for me. It's hard to take those leaps. Right.

Victoria Mann [00:17:52]:

What was that experience like for you? Just so other people can feel it because it's not going to always feel like rainbows and butterflies. You're going to quit your job now?

Erica Bennett [00:18:02]:

Yeah. It felt like an uphill battle for a lot of years because I had so many other beliefs and momentum and thought processes that were really holding me back from being able to do what I wanted to do. And it really just came down to my own doubts and insecurities right. Because I was letting all these other beliefs build on my path. Well, who am I to do that? Well, how come I am the one that gets to do that and can I really do it? And the other side of that, that fear based side of it is this has to work because I have to prove that I'm worthy. And when all of those pieces can be let go, then it becomes fun. And you guys, it wasn't fun for a lot of years. I'll take that back.

Erica Bennett [00:18:44]:

It was like there would be these moments of pure deep bliss in a guided meditation, in a meditation on my own. I could just be driving down the freeway and an amazing song would come on and I'd be, like, rocking out for five minutes. And you could feel it to your core that there was something so amazing, like, God, I'm just happy, and life is supposed to feel this good. And then five minutes later, you might be crying in the car, and five minutes later, you might be stumbling over, like, a work assignment or something that you have to do. But then I'd find that little bliss moment again, and I'd find that little bliss moment again, and I just continued to learn, like, yeah, there's stuff that I'm overcoming in terms of lining up to it. Right. How am I lining up to what I see? And it all has helped me along the way. I think I can look at it now.

Erica Bennett [00:19:36]:

When I left the corporate job, I was really in, like, a 50/50. I was really irritated because I could see how to succeed in that role. I had thought I was going to retire at that company. I had big plans to really change what was happening. And every single day was not fun anymore because we wanted different things. Wasn't anybody's fault. We just wanted different things. And so being able to leave that still brought up a lot of pieces.

Erica Bennett [00:20:04]:

Right. Like, a lot of things, a lot of resentment and anger. And when I could go back to, like, hey, how did this serve me? How can I take the bounce? How did this serve me? How did it bring me forward? I can sit here now and say every single project that I had over those 20 years where I'd be so annoyed that I didn't have writers on my team and I didn't have designers and I didn't have a video production expert. I was doing all that. Now I'm using all that in my job. And so I'm showing up for the assignment, and it was all the prep, it was all the practice in the moment, I didn't realize it, and the moment I was pissed, how come my project wasn't as important? And now I'm like, oh, thank you, Universe.

Victoria Mann [00:20:44]:

Giving you all the skill set.

Erica Bennett [00:20:46]:

You needed, all the things. Yeah. And so that soul plan and a large part of my soul plan, too, is definitely this learning to be alone. Learning to be okay in being alone. I had a desperate need. Yeah. Because I've had a desperate need for belonging my whole life growing up in my family, very loving family. But I didn't feel like I belonged.

Erica Bennett [00:21:07]:

I felt like I was the black sheep. I couldn't figure out yeah. And I couldn't figure out why I was kind of having these divine downloads and things. And my family is very rooted, midwestern. Right. We don't talk about feelings. We don't talk about energy, work, don't.

Victoria Mann [00:21:24]:

Listen to the people around you guys. This happens with every light worker.

Erica Bennett [00:21:27]:

Yeah. And so I just felt very alone. Then I thought, I'd find my partner, and then I would never be alone again. And then I'm alone in my marriage, and then I'm getting divorced. And so this was a huge soul plan for me to figure out how to love me, not expect somebody else to bring me that love.

Victoria Mann [00:21:45]:

When you're happy, that's when it happens. It's like when you know you don't need it.

Erica Bennett [00:21:50]:

Yeah, because you had helped so often. Like, we were having conversations as I was navigating that right. And what I needed was a partner who could hold the space for me. And so as both of us, as light workers, as coaches, what we do for our people is we hold the space until you can pick yourself back up. We will hold the confidence. We will be your cheerleader. And so you held that space a lot.

Erica Bennett [00:22:10]:

And it was so funny because after I manifested the leaving of the corporate job, and then I wound up in Maui on a retreat with Victoria and then extended my stay because I wasn't ready to come home. Like, vacation was not done. I just kept changing my flight. I was like, I'm not coming back yet.

Victoria Mann [00:22:26]:

Then wound up for a while, another girl literally manifested a car on a home.

Erica Bennett [00:22:35]:

Moved on to my first Brand photo shoot. Everything was aligning. I was so happy. I was so like, Fuck yes. I did this. I did this. I lined up to allow it to meet me, and I allowed myself to meet it because it wasn't like I didn't want it. I'd been wanting it for years.

Erica Bennett [00:22:53]:

But now I finally understood what it felt like to allow wonderful things to show up. Yeah. And the funny part, that's when I met the current partner, right. And I tried to get out of that date. You would die laughing. I tried. He still teases me about, it's been two years. And I was like, oh, you live kind of far away.

Erica Bennett [00:23:14]:

Should we just skip this? And he's like, no, we can meet for coffee. And I was like, ugh.

Victoria Mann [00:23:17]:

Self sabotage.

Erica Bennett [00:23:20]:

I so was trying to get out of it because I just was happy. I didn't want to deal with the conversations and the whatever else.

Victoria Mann [00:23:26]:

And I had finally, you're like, I actually don't need you. You're welcome to be at my table, which was what we were working on. Are you worthy of sitting at my table?

Erica Bennett [00:23:36]:

Yeah. And so it's just funny when you just let go, stop trying to control it. And it's hard, you guys. I fought it for years, and then little by little, small thing by small thing, you turn it over, and all of a sudden, one thing rolls into the next thing to be where it's at. Like, now all the work and I even use the term work loosely I love what I'm doing every day. If you had asked me a year ago, I would have told you it was har. Do I want to do it? Yes. Am I going to do it? Yes. But it is hard a year ago and now I'm like, even when it's hard, this is freaking fun to figure out.

Victoria Mann [00:24:11]:

You know how to let it be fun. You know how to come back into that path of least resistance. And I'm sure it's because you stay in your why and you remember, like, I have a responsibility to give this freedom that I have found within myself to other women because this is possible for everybody, no matter what your current circumstances are.

Erica Bennett [00:24:35]:

Absolutely.

Erica Bennett [00:24:40]:

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Erica Bennett [00:25:13]:

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Erica Bennett [00:25:45]:

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Victoria Mann [00:26:09]:

It's so freaking cool because I just think I realized when we met, I don't know what year it was before 2019 because I think I met you before I met Sean. I think I was single too. I had been single for a long time, right. And there's a definite a lot of other people that I have worked with also. And this I don't want to create a limiting belief for you because everyone's path is different. So you could totally fall in love very quickly in a day, meet your next level happy as or after and then pursue your purpose. But a pattern that I have noticed working with light workers is when they don't give a fuck about the relationship and they focus on their path. And they get so excited and they fall so in love with life and their purpose, they detach completely from needing the relationship.

Victoria Mann [00:26:56]:

And so naturally, the prince shows up. Every time. Someone right now all of a sudden, one girl got engaged. Another person is pregnant right now and getting married because she started the training program and it all happened as she was doing it. I'm like, this is fun to watch. Where's the popcorn?

Erica Bennett [00:27:16]:

It is very true. And guys, I consciously tried to let go, right? I thought I was doing it. I thought I was letting go, but it was that thing of like, well, I can be alone. Look, universe, I did it. I was alone. Now you can send somebody because I did it. I did it. And there's definitely a switch that flips.

Erica Bennett [00:27:39]:

And all of a sudden you're like, I want to be my solo traveler. Like, I still love traveling alone more than I love traveling anyway, any other way. But it's all part of the plan, you guys. You don't get to move forward until you've really learned the lesson.

Victoria Mann [00:27:56]:

And it will just keep spilling over into other areas, right? So my love lesson of self worth and rejection when I wasn't getting it in relationships and this was before my spiritual awakening and I was very much in like, why is this happening still? Like, why am I alone? Blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. It didn't happen. But literally as soon as I left and pursued my purpose, everything started to fall into place. It's kind of freaking wild, but it started again for everybody listening. It starts with the willingness and before I do the cards, I just want to touch on because spirit kind of showed me erica was mentioning, but I come back, but I come back, but I come back. She comes back for her happy, right? So this is an emotional guidance gal. This is from Ask and it shall be given. Abraham Hicks Stephen Hawkins actually has another one that gives you the actual frequencies, which is really cool of all of the different emotions.

Victoria Mann [00:28:52]:

But when you're in joy, appreciation, love, passion, enthusiasm, right, optimism. This is when your desires start to manifest. You're going to start to be a match for your desires and get the 1111, get the signs, all of that. When you're in hopefulness, when you're content, when you're holding the frequency that Erica and I were just talking about of, you know what, yes, you want X, Y and Z, but you know the universe is going to give it to you even better than expected and you can just live and enjoy your life right now. And you know what? When you're in traffic and that person pisses you off or that person does something effed up to you, you can look and you can ask yourself, all right, how am I feeling? What just happened? Right? Do what you need to do. To alchemize it come back to feeling good. Then when you're ready, ask, what is this teaching me? What could this be teaching me? What is the lesson here? What am I feeling? How do I want to feel in this situation? And then what would my ideal situation be here, right, if this were to work out even better than expected? Because it will be when you lock into it, what is that going to look and feel like for you in your life? What's the miracle going to be like. When you open up to that new possibility, you start to allow the universe to bring it in. And then every time you start to doubt or you give in to that shitty day, like Erica was saying, you choose again and you decide and you say, hey, do I want to stay down here in guilt, unworthiness, fear, grief, depression, a blame, worry, doubt right overwhelm.

Victoria Mann [00:30:25]:

Do I want to stay here or do I want to remember? A personal mantra I use, if you want to take it is, "I don't do life this way anymore" when I catch myself, because life is still going to happen. But the thing is, you learn how to get fucking good at playing the game of life, and that's how it gets easier.

Erica Bennett [00:30:40]:

It's so funny that you put that up because I've been percolating a class just on how to climb the scale. I don't know, guys. It's a podcast or it's a class, but it has actually been bubbling up because I think that that is the thing. That scale, climbing the scale, how to maintain your happy, that's my jam. That is the one thing. If I say, I can help you fix anything, it's because what I'm really good at is that. turning it around. So if you want to know, the class launches the class or the podcast, the info on how to climb the scale, go to the crazyxwivesclub.com get on the newsletter because I'll blast it out through there. I'll announce it on here too, but it'll come out through email first. So thank you.

Erica Bennett [00:31:23]:

Thank you, universe. Thank you for giving me the little nudge, because now it's got to come out.

Victoria Mann [00:31:28]:

You are so welcome. You are so welcome. And there's so many ways. So say you're listening to this and you're like, wait, I'm obsessed with this. I want to teach this too. You can. And you have to take action like Erica just did on getting that inspired idea. Because here's the thing.

Victoria Mann [00:31:44]:

You could launch a course on the scale and it's going to be completely different than Erica's program on the scale because you're going to get different, for example, right? Like, I teach this in all of my programs, but different ways, because different people are going to need to receive it differently. And then you're going to want to lean into I want you to see how excited Erica just was. You're going to know what the action step is, right? Say maybe you're not into courses and you're just trying to make a decision. The choice is what feels fun, right? Like, Erica met me in one of my old programs, 21 Days of Living even better. And I want you to do this assessment in your own life right now, actually. What is maybe something that's working, that is still working in your life, but it's not lighting you up. It's not lighting you up.

Victoria Mann [00:32:28]:

That's what you have to let go of also, right? So something that I did in the last two years was I let go of all old programs and things that weren't lighting me up and I restructured them into things in my life that were like, recently I went through a parasite cleanse, lost 20 pounds. It reignited an enthusiasm in me in the purification side of ayurveda right? So I just did a course called Pure Attraction really quick, right? But I almost didn't launch it. So I'm just sharing this with you. So, Erica, you feel this, right? And maybe there's some kind of bonus for everybody that's listening right now that's like, I want in on this. And you're going to message Erica as soon as she shares it, and you'll get like, an early enrollment special because.

Victoria Mann [00:33:11]:

Fuck yeah.

Erica Bennett [00:33:12]:

you sure will. So you got to be on the email list because you got to be on the email list because, you guys, that's the only way that I can actually reach you, right? I don't know if the social media clip is going to land in your algorithm. I don't know if you're going to tune into the podcast that week.

Victoria Mann [00:33:27]:

All your unicorns are finding you. That I know, right?

Erica Bennett [00:33:33]:

Yes.

Victoria Mann [00:33:35]:

All you unicorns are finding you. And if you're on this and you're like, wait, how do I do this? I feel like if you're even feeling an inkling of wanting to learn more about this, just take action, right? Drop the expectations and move through the fear and just DM and slide in the DMs and just be like, wait, girl, how did you do this? I want to do this too. How did you do this? I want to do this too. And then I'm just going to ask if they need more entrepreneur stuff or if there's anything else that people still need. And I feel like if this is triggering for anybody, if you're like, Wait, I want this. But it seems big and scary, and maybe you're only still in the middle of whatever you're experiencing. I want you to know that you get to be okay no matter what. That you get to have your happily ever after no matter what.

Victoria Mann [00:34:24]:

And you get to create a life beyond your dreams. Because miracles are your birthright. But it starts when faith starts when it looks like it's not going to happen. I learned that from Amanda Frances, and I love that faith starts when it looks like it's not going to happen. So that's when you have to really drop the balls and say, you know what, I have no reason to believe right now, but I believe that Erica and Victoria had this happen for them and maybe it can happen for me too.

Erica Bennett [00:34:53]:

That's all you need. All you need, you guys, just a little bit. Change that sentence.

Victoria Mann [00:34:57]:

So the cards that I pulled are definitely validating, right? So the first card is Abraham Hicks, which is all about the emotional vibrational scale. So it's confirming everything that we just spoke about, which is amazing. It's I can reach for a better feeling thought. I can reach for a better feeling thought. From your non physical vantage point, you understood the eternal evolving nature of your being and promise that is the leading edge contrasting environment held. I'll decode this for you. You understand the powerful law of attraction and the fairness and accuracy with which it responds to the free will of all creators. By reaching for the best feeling thought you can find, you will shiver with exhilaration as you reconnect with your purpose, your zest for life, and with you.

Victoria Mann [00:35:45]:

So this is the feeling that Erica was describing, right, in her car and that electric feeling after the Maui healing, right? You get to fucking reach for a better feeling thought and come back to it. And that's why she just got so excited to give it to you, because.

Erica Bennett [00:36:00]:

She'S like, literally that's the class, guys. You can reach for a better feeling thought in any single moment. In any moment something you have to be birthed.

Victoria Mann [00:36:11]:

You have to be birthed. I love it. The three of st. Michael. So for anybody who's going through anything, if you're not already working with the energy of Archangel Michael, you're not sure he's real. He is. You have to call on your guides. You have to call. It is like they say, right? Because you have free will and you have teams of guardian angels, right, of archangels, of all of these beautiful, benevolent beings that want to help you, but you have to ask, you have to allow it in.

Victoria Mann [00:36:37]:

So really quick, great prayer, something you could journal is, I'm just going to channel for you what this group needs for their highest and greatest good. And you're just going to say, hey, I'm willing to be open to communicating with my guides and angels and my future self for my highest and greatest good of all. Right? And if you're not sure how you feel about it, write that out too. I'm not sure how we feel if I'm going to be able to do this, but I'm open to miracles, right? And then ask for a sign, right? One of my very clear signs, it started with an owl, like Gabby Bernstein. Owls were like, everywhere. Then it was a flamingos and flamingos were everywhere. So now I have a peacock, right? And it will show up exactly when you need it. And a pro tip, right? And we do this in Pure Attraction.

Victoria Mann [00:37:17]:

Erica, you should definitely do this with people is because it will pop up. So you guys might see this popping up for you now that I'm sharing it with you because it might imprint in your subconscious, but it's a good thing. So when I have signs, not just for knowing that everything's going to work out okay or from the universe, and it helps bring your vibration, the sign back all the way up here because, you know, like you know, like, wait, I just was communicating with my dad who crossed over, and then my very clear sign from him appeared. And that song right after. That's not Law of Attraction, that's your loved one communicating with you. You're not just attracting in more of the symbol you chose. So I have a sign. I like to use signs for fear based energy, too.

Victoria Mann [00:37:58]:

Signs for when you are maybe down here and you're not believing and you need a kind of like kick in the butt to kind of be, whoa, I'm giving into fear, let's come back. That sign for me is a red balloon. From IT, right? Because if you've ever seen the scary movie, it's when you feed the fear monster, it grows bigger, but when you remember that it's know fear is just false evidence appearing real, you take your power back and you move back into that expansion back into the love and and Dr. David Simon shares, right? Like when we shine the light on the scary monsters under our bed, we realize they're not scary at all and that's actually how we take our power back. My whole life I was stuffing the negative feelings under the rug, but how we get to our next level is shining the light on them and they'll move. You don't have to feel it for a long time, right? So if you're like me and you tend to get stuck in them, do not get stuck in the lower frequencies. You have to choose that better feeling thought, right? And that's where you're going to sign up for Erica's program. And then Archangel Michael saying, release the past, you will grow from this situation. Time heals all wounds.

Victoria Mann [00:39:07]:

So whatever you're going through, if it feels like it's never going to get better, if it feels like you're never going to get out from under that wave, if it feels like you feel like I felt like I'm choosing again, I'm trying. I'm open to miracles. What the fuck? I've prayed my whole life. It's not happening. Do not give up before the miracle. Do not give up before the miracle because you are getting it. And then the owl, clear signs already coming in. The owl here says a great deal of activity, sudden and immediate results.

Victoria Mann [00:39:36]:

So this is a great time for action when it feels good. So if you're getting an inspired idea like Erica just did, right? I got one the other day for a whole new program. Take action on it. Take action in that inspired feeling. I think it's Tony Robbins who says, you have 30 seconds. You have 30 seconds to take action on the inspired feel good thought before your fear and ego will try and kick you out of it, right? So don't let yourself get kicked out of it. And important communication. So I think the biggest message, the biggest guidance that I'm getting for everybody on this call is to be fearless in the pursuit of communicating with yourself, communicating with your own self, right? And Erica's going to show you how to do that and just tapping more into, like, how am I feeling? And then, what do I need to clear this feeling, right, to come back into feeling good? And maybe, is it okay if we do a little Ayurvedic alchemy, just quick five minute thing to clear the energy?

Erica Bennett [00:40:34]:

Yes. Because I was going to say, oh, my God, we're almost at our full time. But to summarize our cards, you guys, because that was such a perfect message, we're going to summarize our cards and then we'll close with a little alchemizing and send you on your way. But you get to choose your feelings in every single minute. In every single moment, you guys. You get to choose how you want to feel in the moment. Let go of the stuff that no longer serves you. Let go of the past.

Erica Bennett [00:41:00]:

Release the things. Lean on if you're not sure how. Lean on your angels. Lean on the extra help that's there, but know that you are being supported. And then when you do those, guess what, guys? Get ready, because it gets busy. It gets really good. It gets really fun. The signs start showing up, the activities, the inspired downloads.

Erica Bennett [00:41:21]:

So just remember those three. I mean, those three are huge takeaways for you guys and such a lesson.

Victoria Mann [00:41:27]:

What are you going to do if you see a red balloon or a clown? Clown is my other sign. You're going to fucking choose again. You're going to be like home in fear. What am I thinking about? A kundalini training I was in, I love this, one of the teachers said your emotion is energy in motion.

Erica Bennett [00:41:47]:

Yes, sure is. So where you want it to go? All right, let's close them out with.

Victoria Mann [00:41:53]:

Should have done this at the beginning, but that's okay. It was exactly as we needed to be. So just rubbing our palms together. Starting to just tune into your own inner healer, your own intuitive alchemist, remembering that you have access to everything you need, no matter what you're currently experiencing. Just being open to this possibility. Starting to feel the heat between your palms, opening the palms just a little bit. Just starting to see if you could feel that beautiful source, pure potential energy within you. And then you're going to place one hand over your heart, one hand over your belly.

Victoria Mann [00:42:25]:

Take a deep inhale as you breathe in the beautiful prana from source energy, breathing it in through your nose. Hold the breath at the top and audibly exhale out. Just letting go of any of that worry, any stress, any concern. And now just scanning your body with your eyes closed, rolling them in and up. Activating your intuition. Starting to just feel the pure potential energy living at the base of your spine as you start to activate, that moving the cerebral fluid up to the pineal gland. Breathe in, in and release it out. Audibly sigh it out.

Victoria Mann [00:43:05]:

Now, just noticing in your body, where are you feeling any heaviness? Whatever came up for you on this call? Are there any parts of you that are doubting or need to come into balance? And just seeing if you could give any of that heaviness in the body, a shape and a color? Is it a triangle? Is it a squiggly line? Is it black? Is it gray? Is it yellow? Is it orange? Is it dots all over? Is it black all over your body? Where is it? Don't judge it, just see it. Take a deep inhale. Breathe in. Hold the breath. Hold it in your mind's eye, seeing two beautiful golden angel wings. I want you to hand it over. This is not yours to hold. Hand it over.

Victoria Mann [00:43:50]:

Exhale it out. Let it go. Let it go. Let it go. One more. There's a cord attached. Breathe in. And releasing all of this fear based energy, allowing Archangel Michael in exile.

Victoria Mann [00:44:01]:

It out. And just noticing, on a scale of one to 10, 10 being next level happy zero being in that fear and that confusion, racing thoughts, where are you at? And then where do you want to be? Do you want to be at a ten? Do you want to be in that alignment where you feel source, handing you every solution you need at your fingertips, accessing that happiness, that electric feeling where everything looks so beautiful in its truth, in its purity, remembering you're one with nature, claiming that desire. Take another deep inhale. Hold the breath. Exhale out now, feeling source coming in through your crown, washing over your shoulders, through your heart, down into the sacral, deep into your root, through your feet. Beautiful. And now pulling up source energy through the base of your spine, breathing it in and up. Exhale out.

Victoria Mann [00:45:14]:

Now with your eyes closed, just resting your palm on your knees and just letting source fill your palms with white light, calling in whatever you need. Is it more energy? Is it grace? Do you want to wake up and feel rested? Do you want more sleep? Do you want people around you to be easier? Whatever it is, being open to that miracle? And then I want you to breathe into any parts of you that are still not believing. Take a deep inhale into your heart seeing a bright emerald green light exhale out. I am safe to give and receive love. Tapping on your heart center. I am safe to give and receive even more love. Everything is rigged in my favor. The entire universe is designed to support me, and I welcome that help.

Victoria Mann [00:46:02]:

I am worthy. I deserve it. Take a deep inhale into your heart exhale out I'm willing to be willing. Hand it over. Dropping the arms, shaking them out through your aura. Lifting the arms up to the sky. Stretching up, creating a new possibility in the Akashic records for your limitless life. Opening up and back into center.

Victoria Mann [00:46:32]:

And when you're ready, opening your eyes and looking into the lines in the palms of your hands, noticing the taste in your mouth, the feeling of the surface you're sitting on, supporting you, all of Mother Earth supporting you. And then one of my favorite grounding techniques, more than rooting, because I find it takes you more into your third eye, is really looking into the lines of your palms or taking any object around you and looking into the details of it, and it will bring you right back into the 3D reality. All right, how are we feeling?

Erica Bennett [00:47:09]:

Fantastic. I know we usually open, but I really like that we closed on that.

Victoria Mann [00:47:14]:

We were meant to. That's what everybody needed.

Erica Bennett [00:47:16]:

We're sending them off on their merry way. You guys, all of Victoria's information is in the notes, right? So you can find her in there. You can find her. I'll tag her in social. It'll be in the email. So, again, the crazyexwivesclub.com. Yeah, go get on the email list so you can get her info. We'll share all that for you guys, too.

Erica Bennett [00:47:37]:

Thank you, Victoria, for joining me today. This was so fun. It was so good to catch up again since it's been a while since we've gotten a chance to chat. And thank you so much.

Victoria Mann [00:47:48]:

Keep rocking. I'm so excited about your course. I can't wait to share about it.

Erica Bennett [00:47:52]:

I know, I'll let you know. You guys, until next week, give yourself grace, take care of yourself and find a little time just for you. We'll talk to you all soon.

Erica Bennett [00:48:05]:

And that's it. Another great episode of The Crazy Ex Wives Club, a podcast for women learning how to heal from their divorce. Tune in next week for more advice and tips to help you figure out life after divorce. And until then, give yourself grace, do the best you can, and know that this is all part of the process.